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Affairs and how to recover from it. Ain’t You Tired?

Affairs and how to recover from it A sexual relationship with a person(s) who isn’t your spouse is Adultery. This relationship could be emotional or not. An emotional affair with anyone who isn’t your spouse is also adultery in a more concealed form. This happens when a person turns to…

Herpes and it’s impact on mental health.(2/3 of Individuals under 50 have it)

This write-up on herpes, it’s spread both in Nigeria and globally happens to be something I decided to discuss owing to it’s prevalence. It’s spreading, has no cure and yet has not been given adequate attention. If there was a time in human-kinds history to avoid hooking up with random…
Understanding Narcissism

Identifying Narcissism: Getting Help (Part 2 of 2) FREE PERSONALITY TEST INCLUDED

It’s become quite fashionable for partners to make accusations of narcissism against their spouse.  After a few years of speaking to clients from all works of life, it’s become quite obvious to me that we all possess narcissistic tendencies. These accusations are often defense mechanisms created to absolve the accuser…
9 Strong Confirmations You're Having an Emotional Affair — And What to Do About It

9 Strong Confirmations You’re Having an Emotional Affair — And What to Do About It

9 Strong Confirmations You’re Having an Emotional Affair — And What to Do About It is today’s topic. An emotional affair is one of the subtlest affair types you could ever find yourself embroiled in. I see many men and women week in and out sit across and narrate how…
How to Enjoy Your Holidays Even with Unresolved Issues

How to Enjoy Your Holidays Even with Unresolved Issues

Our topic for today is simply on How to Enjoy Your Holidays Even with Unresolved Issues .  A turbulent marriage or relationship is already as tough as it gets and sometimes, having to leave the house every now and then to work provides the getaway couples need to cope with…
...not involving sexual intimacy..

Other Types of Intimacy that can Improve Your Relationship Asides the Sexual Type

Years ago, i remember a question in social psychology class on intimacy. We were supposed to describe this phenomenon  and what it meant to us in just 3 words. 99.99% of the class came up with just 3 words. Sex, physical touch and kisses. Maybe we were a bunch of…
Understanding Narcissism: Narcissists are Created Not Born

Understanding Narcissism: Narcissists are Built Not Born (part 1 of 2)

Today’s conversation is on the topic Understanding Narcissism: Narcissists are Built Not Born. “My partner is a Narcissist, I have understudied him or her and arrived at this conclusion”. This line if fast becoming a lot more rampant as i progressed in my career as a therapist. This led to…
Advice from divorced women on what you need to know before marriage.

Advice from 7 divorced women on what you need to know before marriage

7 divorced women and their advice on what you need to know before marriage is an important one for me. While researching on a topic i stumbled on the most realistic piece i had ever seen, This was advice given by divorced women on what to consider before getting married.…
Understanding affair types and Learning How to Protect Yourself from It (you don't have to get caught to change) by temple obike

Understanding affair types and Learning How to Protect Yourself from It (you don’t have to get caught to change)

Today we’ll be talking about a topic “Understanding affair types and Learning How to Protect Yourself”. Having observed many couples and individuals struggle with affairs, the identification of the reason an affair happened and the type of affair your partner may be embroiled in is usually one of the major…
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