Over the past 13 years as a psychotherapist i have seen paranoia and anxiety present themselves in different ways. Individuals, couples and organizations have been destabilized via individuals suffering from one or both of these conditions. Questions have poured in via email and i recently noticed an uptick in the…
Understanding Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is an important aspect of life and living in todays world. Over the past 13 years of practicing as a marriage counselor, therapist and coach, i’ve discovered that.. …”between 15% to 23 % of all the cases i encountered within an entire year was always…
Introduction: What type of therapist is best for marriage counseling ? A question many are starting to ask. Marriage, a union celebrated across diverse cultures in Nigeria, encounters its unique set of challenges. Choosing the right therapist for marriage counseling is a pivotal decision for couples seeking to strengthen their…
Color is all around us, a constant part of our daily lives. Yet, it’s more than just a visual experience—it can have a profound impact on our emotions, behaviors, and even our mental health. Let’s explore the fascinating realm of color psychology and delve into how different colors can influence…
Emotional abuse, often overlooked and underestimated, is a silent killer of self-esteem, mental well-being, and personal relationships. Unlike physical abuse, the scars of emotional abuse are hidden beneath the surface, leaving victims in a state of perpetual distress. On this write-up i will take you on a quick journey into…
Eating disorders are complex mental health conditions that affect millions of people worldwide. Yet, despite their prevalence, there is still a strong stigma surrounding them. This stigma often leads to misconceptions and judgement towards those struggling with these disorders. One aspect that adds to the stigma is the focus on…
When we think of domestic abuse, we often picture a woman being physically harmed by her partner. However, there is a hidden struggle that is not often talked about – male abuse in marriage. While physical violence against men is a serious issue, emotional abuse on men is also a…
Soji, 40, and Maureen, 41, (I’m guessing you are a regular and already know the names are all fictitious) in-session are sitting down and trying to hear what the other person has to say first. It was a bit tough at the onset but their therapist was experienced and was…
200 Couple “Must-Ask” Questions. Whether you are a new couple, or you’ve been a couple for years and years, we’ve got loads of questions for couples that will be perfect for getting a great conversation going. Some questions are more serious than others so have a look through and see…
Seated in a cool family-friendly joint, it was time for our cheesy delight. As the waiter arrived with the creamy, stretchy beauty it’s aroma had my stomach churning with expectancy, the kids were all excited and their mum too. Just as we were about to dig in, my 13-year old…