Today’s conversation is on the topic Understanding Narcissism: Narcissists are Built Not Born. “My partner is a Narcissist, I have understudied him or her and arrived at this conclusion”. This line if fast becoming a lot more rampant as i progressed in my career as a therapist. This led to…
7 divorced women and their advice on what you need to know before marriage is an important one for me. While researching on a topic i stumbled on the most realistic piece i had ever seen, This was advice given by divorced women on what to consider before getting married.…
Today we’ll be talking about a topic “Understanding affair types and Learning How to Protect Yourself”. Having observed many couples and individuals struggle with affairs, the identification of the reason an affair happened and the type of affair your partner may be embroiled in is usually one of the major…
It was a sad episode as our Lead Counsel, Temple Obike discussed Grief and how to grieve properly on The Kambili’s Show. The two co-hosts had just lost close family members and it wasn’t just the easiest interview but there was still a lot to learn about grief. The show…
Our Lead Counsel, Temple Obike discussed the topic “Infidelity and It’s Pitfalls on Radio Nigeria’s “Family Circle”. The show was hosted by Mrs Okoli Kristy. The Feedback was amazing with questions pouring in via calls and texts from couples who had been affected by infidelity. The show has over a…
Today i want us to discuss a topic i captioned “Loneliness: Learn to Identify and Uproot it from your life”. I remembered the Akon song “Lonely” and how big a hit it was. As i progressed in my psychotherapy practice, i understood why. It was a song that reeked of…
Resentment between partners and how to kill it is a discussion that I think is long overdue. The Oxford dictionary describes resentment as; Resentment /rɪˈzɛntm(ə)nt/ noun: bitter indignation at having been treated unfairly. However, my real-world definition is this. Resentment is that strong sense of hate, fear, disgust, or internal…
Today i’ll be talking about Anger, how to recognize and Manage It. Anger is your natural response to perceived threats and it’s directly attributable to our survival as a specie. This response by itself is not unhealthy but when sustained over a period or uncontrolled, it could become so. Anger…
Positive active listening skills and how to develop them is an important skill. A skill i liken to knowing how to drive, swim, interact socially etc. Some years ago while in counseling school, i could remember my teacher giving me a written case scenario and then asking me to figure…
Male Sexual Dysfunction, It’s Causes & Solution was the topic discussed in today’s interview. Our Lead Counsel, Temple Obike was interviewed regarding this very important topic affecting many marriages today. Male Sexual Dysfunction is a topic not many men are comfortable discussing even though it’s a significant reason for marriage…